This blog is NSFW, and will shamelessly contain, post, and reblog porn, especially BDSM. Lots of it, actually. With cute captions because it's adorable. You have been warned.
Anything too bad will be tagged as "NSFW" and/or "BDSM" to spare your innocent eyes. (:
You can call me Shikatoki, or Shika for short. I am a fat, sadistic, dominant, obsessed, pansexual, furry, writer, artist, and lady. It's a good combination, I swear.
I also have the best girlfriend in the world. You should follow her.
Hope you like my blog! But if you don't, that's okay, too.
[Series of texts by @fatnutritionist, which read: “People are mad at me because they ‘work so hard’ to be fit or lose weight. They have told me this explicitly. It implies that they think my rejecting the values they subscribe to can somehow take away the fitness they’ve worked for. That is totally delusional. If you’ve worked hard for fitness, no amount of fat people rejecting stigma can take that away. So this is obviously not actually about fitness, at all. It’s about the other thing they ‘worked hard’ for: social status. They DO think, and they know, that the social status they have worked hard to earn, through ‘fitness,’ can be devalued. It can be devalued if the hierarchy that rewards them is crushed. Crushed by people rejecting stigma. We can’t take away your fitness or whatever weight you’ve lost. But we can devalue those things by destroying fat stigma. So they are afraid of us, and for good reason. If fat people aren’t stigmatized, then there is no more thin privilege. Remember always, fat people: People are afraid of you because you have an awesome power - to destroy the hierarchy. If they were not afraid of losing their place in the hierarchy, they would not come after you so viciously.” All tweets were accompanied by the hashtag, #notyourgoodfatty]
“When you want something so bad, you think about it every second of the day.. You dream about it at night. You research, study & you mold your entire life around it. You feel like you were made to do, be, or become this one person to accomplish this one goal and no matter the sacrifice or the risk and no matter how many times you get turned away, you smile because you know.. soon you will live in that dream. Your greatest fear should not be that you’ll fail, but you will put limits on how extraordinary you can become. The road to greatness is not marked by perfection, but the ability to constantly overcome adversity and failure. Remember that every choice you make in your life, is affecting you in ways you’d never imagine.”
I know it feels good to know that other people feel the same about some things as you. It makes you feel less alone.
but I think this trend of people reblogging self hate posts really needs to stop. It’s damaging. It makes me sad to see all these people, with all these hundreds of thousands of notes on posts like “reblog if you think you’re ugly” or “reblog if you hate your voice” or something like that. I’ve even reblogged the latter of those two before.
But it needs to stop.
How about we rally and feel grouped under the things we love about ourselves and others instead of this damaging self hate.